Well, it’s certainly been an eventful few weeks. Congratulations again to my sister Ann, the new Dr. Finkelstein, and to Jackie Blizman, now Jackie Damp. Nothing like a graduation and a wedding to make one mindful of the ongoing passage of time. There’s nothing that dramatic happening in my life right now, unless you count the New York move in seventeen days, coupled with the search for a new job. That’s more than enough to keep me busy, and while I’m anxious to get situated in the Big Apple again, I’m also glad of the time to prepare myself. I think I’m ready this time. Back in ‘06, when I first lived in New York, I didn’t have the website up and running yet, and it’s just as well, because my posts would have been unbearably dreary. I was having a tough time, and I was in an unhealthy mindset. This time, things will be different. Megan is moving with me, and the cats, and I’m confident that’s all the support network I’ll need. I’ll be close to my Dad’s side of the family again, and also, through the magic of Facebook, I’ve become aware of friends of mine in the area. It’s interesting, there’s people I know in N.Y. from several different eras of my life. I’m not sure how much I have in common with some of them anymore, but I’m eager to find out, and to renew old relationships in a new context.
Megan and I have signed a lease in Borough Park, an area of Brooklyn that I didn’t know a whole lot about prior to visiting it this past week. For those of you who don’t know, Borough Park is one of the biggest communities of Orthodox Jews in the world, approximately eighty percent, and most of the rest of the population is Asian. Not to put too much stock in stereotypes, but that sounds like a safe, quiet combination, and that’s what we were looking for. It’s about half an hour to Manhattan by train, off the beaten track a bit, but still plenty close to the action. I think it’s going to work out well. The apartment is nothing special, but perfectly serviceable, for New York, and it’s a starter apartment. As I mentioned in a previous blog, the first apartment (and job) doesn’t need to be ideal. Right now, it’s all about getting our feet in the door. The pursuit of loftier aspirations will follow. This is just the beginning.
Indeed, it does seem like a time for rejuvenation, and I am tremendously excited. Megan and I were talking about when it’s going to all sink in. Will it be when we pack up our things into the U-Haul and make the drive, or will it be the first time I’m on the train, going to my new job, no longer a tourist, but a resident again? Will it be in six months, pressed up with the throng in Time’s Square when the ball drops on a new decade? I don’t know, but I can’t wait to find out. I asked Megan if she ever thought she’d actually move to New York, and she said she didn’t think she would. I had already told her I knew I’d be coming back. I looked at it as inevitable. This had to happen. All the possibilities are there, for both of us. And I am gratified for the opportunity to pursue them.
This month, in addition to my story being featured in the Patchwork Path anthology, and the two stories of mine in the Perceptions publication, I’ve also learned that my story “While Peter’s Away” will be published by Oysters and Chocolate, the online erotica mag. The story will go live this Monday, the 15th. This is the second time my work has appeared there. This is also the second time that this particular story has been published; the first was by Bareback, last year, though since I wasn’t paid for its use on that occasion, I retained ownership of it. You can check it out at www.oystersandchocolate.com, once again, if you are not bothered by graphic sexual content.
Well, that’s it for now. I’ll be posting again with move related updates, as we draw closer to the date. It’s been a somewhat turbulent first half of ‘09, and I wonder what the second half has in store. I find it fortuitous, possibly, that the move will come about at precisely the halfway point of the year. How much bigger and better will the second half be, at least as it relates to my writing? Moving to New York can’t possibly hurt my chances of future publication, and I will be redoubling my efforts. The third novel is well underway, and I also wanted to mention again that I look to put out my new collection of short stories, The Great Divide, this coming winter. Stay tuned for that. Any advice or suggestions on cheap things to do in N.Y. are much appreciated, and I hope everyone is enjoying the summer. Cheers.